At times why it happens, that all seems to go wrong. Things which other wise are on auto pilot mode and functions smoothly, that also starts giving trouble. ?
While I dont know why it happens , but all I know is these times are very depressing and does havoc to one's confidence.
What is to be done in this situation??Stay put and stay calm- easier said than done
That's the max you can do. Irritation and frustration will want to creep inside you and take control of your entire body , mind and soul. You just put a no entry board for it.
Just try and sail thru, dont get your ego in place. It is given its a bad time, so even if you have to just listen and absorb what is being said - be it.
Please understand this is a phase - like all others. And this one phase can not , rather should not rule your life. This too shall pass , and you and your confidence will remain happily ever after.
What causes more stress to us is - what will happen to my image ? I am know as the best cook in my entire family , how can I mess up the bhindi ki subzi in a family dinner ? Or I am the rockstar of my team , have got so many awards, what will bosses think of me when they get to know I did this mistake. ? I am such an amazing driver, my friends swear by my driving skills, hell will break when they get to know I bumped the car while parking .
These are just very basic and few example , all of us if we think deeper along with the consequences of any mistake that we do , harm to our image is part of the package.
Get over it people, you are a human and making mistakes is destined for you. Dont be over critical for yourself and ruthless towards your own self.
Esp I have seen people going thru miserable time, when some blunder happens at work and the hell they go thru. Stress is just to high and you have no one who will just come and tell you its ok. and I am with you
What do you do then ?
close your eyes and think of the person who loves you the most or you love the most. Think with this mistake , what will change between you and him/her. If the answer is nothing- you can smile back
When I am in this situation ( trust me I am thr often :)) ) I just think will my mom love me any less for this? Or my daughter - will she not say " I love you mumma " just because I did this mistake ?
And with all this I feel better and ready to face any situation .
Problem in life is we give too much importance to things/people who have very little meaning in our real life . And people who actually shape our lives or are the reason for us to smile - we ignore them.
We feel career gives us happiness and satisfaction , money , victory gives me pleasure. Truth is nothing but just pure love , affection and caring is what can give you happiness.
While I dont know why it happens , but all I know is these times are very depressing and does havoc to one's confidence.
What is to be done in this situation??Stay put and stay calm- easier said than done
That's the max you can do. Irritation and frustration will want to creep inside you and take control of your entire body , mind and soul. You just put a no entry board for it.
Just try and sail thru, dont get your ego in place. It is given its a bad time, so even if you have to just listen and absorb what is being said - be it.
Please understand this is a phase - like all others. And this one phase can not , rather should not rule your life. This too shall pass , and you and your confidence will remain happily ever after.
What causes more stress to us is - what will happen to my image ? I am know as the best cook in my entire family , how can I mess up the bhindi ki subzi in a family dinner ? Or I am the rockstar of my team , have got so many awards, what will bosses think of me when they get to know I did this mistake. ? I am such an amazing driver, my friends swear by my driving skills, hell will break when they get to know I bumped the car while parking .
These are just very basic and few example , all of us if we think deeper along with the consequences of any mistake that we do , harm to our image is part of the package.
Get over it people, you are a human and making mistakes is destined for you. Dont be over critical for yourself and ruthless towards your own self.
Esp I have seen people going thru miserable time, when some blunder happens at work and the hell they go thru. Stress is just to high and you have no one who will just come and tell you its ok. and I am with you
What do you do then ?
close your eyes and think of the person who loves you the most or you love the most. Think with this mistake , what will change between you and him/her. If the answer is nothing- you can smile back
When I am in this situation ( trust me I am thr often :)) ) I just think will my mom love me any less for this? Or my daughter - will she not say " I love you mumma " just because I did this mistake ?
And with all this I feel better and ready to face any situation .
Problem in life is we give too much importance to things/people who have very little meaning in our real life . And people who actually shape our lives or are the reason for us to smile - we ignore them.
We feel career gives us happiness and satisfaction , money , victory gives me pleasure. Truth is nothing but just pure love , affection and caring is what can give you happiness.
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