" Men will be Men"

Disclaimer- This article might not be liked by some of my male friends. Please read at your own risk.

Why is it so difficult for males to accept rejection/defeat/ NO???? I just fail to understand.....
I had this amazing stint with so called " Male Ego"" Trust me all this while I had just heard about it and used to think this exists only in movies. A guy who was all praises and love for a girl..suddenly finds her the ugliest woman in town...his frustration is high to such an extent that not only he is ignoring the girl but ...making all possible attempts to make her life miserable.

I am personally very annoyed with this version of "men". who loves to be in some dream world of their own. They have full freedom to make their own choices, flirt wth 100 females...but wen it comes to marriage they take thr picks very smartly. They will finalise a girl wth all possible qualities- looks, education, character, nature, salary, sense of humor.....n then decide on a "target". And feels the moment they will approach a girl, she will jump off her feet to come to him. And that there is no option with her to say NO.

My suggestion to all such guys please do a lil bit of analysis- to see where u fit in w.r.t event 50% of criterion u set for the other party.....

Expressions...

People are fairly confused in this world- yes they are. I am Shocked to see that, the people have reached the highest degree of manipulation in their lives. Try doing it at times and you would know where I am coming from- when you are in a group, just be silent and let the others do the talking, and you just OBSERVE. You will clearly see the true face behind the speaking faces, they all are bloody so fake. You cant trust anyone - you never know the sympathy that's coming your way is with a plan in mind. The company over coffee given to you mite be because you have some information that the other person mite want.
All this I learnt during my MBA days, thanks to my friends who helped me graduate in this process along with the professional degree!!
And why I tell that people are confused, because they don't know what they want from their life, all these manipulations they get into is not because of some major long term plan, its for their momentary pleasure. In the corporate world I can still try and convince myself for the fake behavior. But people have lost touch with themselves even in the personal world. Emotions like care, love etc have all become mind games. People select a " target " and then do everything possible to alter themselves to suit the other person- which the world refers to as LOVE. Love doesn't come from heart any more , it straight gets generated from the mind.
People are in a business of pleasing everyone around, they mould themselves so much to suit the other party( be it boyfriend, Friend, Husband, Sister or mother in law, colleagues, BOSS etc) that at the end of the day it Will be hard for them to tell that in midst of all this fake expressions where does their original self lies. And that is the biggest loss any one can suffer from- to loose ones individuality for the world around. And its sad to see that most of the people around have already lost this battle.....